July 2025 - First Tee - Silicon Valley

Mentor Spotlight: Ysabelle Lam

(Mentor Spotlight: Ysabelle Lam – July 11, 2025) First Tee – Silicon Valley (FTSV) has positively impacted over 100,000 kids and teens throughout our 25-year history. That success is largely built on the passion, hard work, and commitment of our hundreds of volunteer mentors and paid staff. This month’s Mentor Spotlight is on a volunteer who’s been with us for 2 years, who always brings a positive attitude and goal of meeting kids where they are to help them get the most out of their FTSV experience.

Ysabelle Lam started with FTSV in 2023. She began working with our participants at Baylands Golf Links and coaches with us every season. In her classes she successfully bonds with students over shared interests like art, gaming, and travel. Ysabelle knows how to break the ice, an important step to building a positive, trusting relationship that allows our coaches to effectively deliver our life skills curriculum in a safe, fun environment.

“When I started at First Tee, I was still in my first year of learning golf. My personal golf journey was extremely frustrating at times, so it became a great way for me to grow my character as well. I love using golf to teach life skills, because if you can stay respectful, confident, and truly persevere through an off day in golf, it prepares you to face and conquer challenging times in any aspect of life.”

The best part about Coach Ysabelle’s coaching style is her ability to bring the life skill lessons to kids within friendly conversation – showing and engaging, rather than telling, participants what it means to be respectful, appreciate diversity, collaborate, and more. In this way, participants are internalizing how the life skills connect with their interests, or with whatever they are experiencing in their lives. As a result, the life skills become much more impactful and applicable.

“When I am coaching my number one priority is to ensure everyone is having fun (and also to be safe). I emphasize encouragement over criticism and try to help students stay confident, even when they’re struggling — whether we’re on the range or out on the course. What I enjoy most is watching their confidence grow throughout the season — not just in their golf game, but in themselves.”

Ysabelle is a perfect example that FTSV is a “life skills first” program, where golf is the vehicle to building character and becoming the best version of yourself. No matter your skill level, golf tests us in ways that bring out the best of our integrity, confidence, and work-ethic, making it the perfect life-long sport we can all enjoy with dedication. FTSV is always looking for volunteer mentors who are looking to make an impact on the lives of kids, teens, and the community. Coach Ysabelle says, “ If you’re considering joining FTSV as a volunteer, know that you don’t need to be a golf expert — you just need a passion for helping kids grow. The impact you can make simply by showing up and caring is huge.” For more information on joining FTSV as a volunteer coach.

KRTY.COM Writers Cup Benefits First Tee – Silicon Valley

The 2025 KRTY.COM Writers Cup benefits First Tee – Silicon Valley. Join some of Nashville’s country music songwriters on October 1st at Cinnabar Hills Golf Club for a day of golf, guitars and giving back!

Tournament is SOLD OUT! (as of 9/15/25)

Writers participating in this year’s KRTY.COM Writers Cup:

Matt Stell, Casey Brown, Ben Williams, Chris Bandi, Trent Tomlinson, Luke Dick

KRTY.COM Writers Cup Timeline:

10:00am – Check In – Pick up Gift & Lunch
11:45am – Players in Carts
12:00pm – Scramble Shotgun Start
5:00pm – Cocktails & First Half Songwriters Show
5:45pm – Dinner, LIVE Auction & Raffle
7:00pm – Second Half Songwriters Show

KRTY.COM Writers Cup Tournament Pack will include:

$50 per player – Tournament pack will be available a few weeks before the tourney

One Mulligan
Closest to Hole (2)
DGDG Car Hole In One
Putting Contest at the snack bar turn
10 Raffle Tickets for chance to win exciting prizes
Benefits First Tee – Silicon Valley

To find out how to make FTSV a beneficiary of your upcoming fundraiser by visiting our Partner Page.

Read last year’s Recap: KRTY.COM Writers Cup Benefits First Tee – Silicon Valley

LAST YEAR: “We are very proud to be able to produce this event for the benefit of First Tee – Silicon Valley” said Nate Deaton, KRTY.com General Manager. “We are lucky to have 6 amazing songwriters with us this year, Trent Tomlinson, Luke Dick, Ray Fulcher, Casey Brown, Tyler Reeve, and of course, Cole Taylor. One night at the end of last year, I mentioned to Cole Taylor that I had an idea to do a Charity Golf Event with Songwriters. He looked at me and said, we could call it the Writers Cup! And here we are.”

KRTY.COM Writers Cup Benefits First Tee – Silicon Valley golfers

KRTY.COM Writers Cup Benefits First Tee – Silicon Valley songwriters

Published: 07-11-2025

5th Annual Fund the Kids Golf Tournament in Gilroy

Join Jacobs – South County Regional Wastewater Authority for the 5th Annual Fund the Kids Golf Tournament, benefiting First Tee – Silicon Valley on Saturday, September 27^th, 2025 at Gilroy Golf Course.

Sponsor

Jacobs has been the Contract Operator for the South County Regional Wastewater Authority (SCRWA) plant in Gilroy since 1984. Under a long-term service agreement, Jacobs maintains the integrity of the wastewater system. It is the goal of SCRWA to protect public health and the environment and ensure economic vitality of the Gilroy-Morgan Hill region. The plant operator’s objective is to provide the best quality recycled water at a superior value to the residents.

This plant has won numerous awards, including Plant of the Year Award for several years in a row, while many of their employees have also won individual awards, winning Laboratory Person of the Year numerous times, with the most recent in 2022.

Community involvement is an extension of the Jacobs’ and the SCRWA culture. They care about their surrounding communities. This is why Jacobs’ felt compelled to sponsor the 5th Annual Fund the Kids Golf Tournament, benefiting First Tee – Silicon Valley.

(Read about last year’s tournament HERE)

As of September 12th, FOURSOMES and INDIVIDUAL player registrations are SOLD OUT. But please consider a sponsorship.

Fund the Kids Sponsorship Levels

$1,500 – HOST SPONSORS: Signage at registration, lunch area, and beverage stations. Recognition on website, on socials, program and 1-Foursome. Sponsor may be on-site with giveaways and/or info.
$1,000 – CONTEST SPONSORS: Signage at the (3) contest holes (closest to the pin, longest drive & putting), website, recognition on socials, program and 4-lunch invites. Sponsor may be on-site with giveaways and/or info.
$500 – SUPPORTING SPONSORS: Signage at (2) Tee boxes, website, recognition on socials, program and 2-lunch invites.
$300 – HOLE SPONSORS: Signage at (1) tee box, recognition on social and program.

PUBLISHED: 07-11-2025 UPDATED: 09-11-2025

Benefits of Extracurricular Activities on Youth Development

(Benefits of Extracurricular Activities on Youth Development – July 11, 2025) According to numerous published studies, students who participate in Extracurricular Activities outside the classroom experience notable gains in academic success, character building, social development and community involvement.

1. Academic Success

“Students who participate frequently in extracurricular activities tend to have higher grades, better test scores, and more positive educational experiences in general” (Claudette Christison The Benefits of Participating in Extracurricular Activities https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/EJ1230758.pdf – Fredricks, 2011). Christison continues… “students involved in activities have a 10% increase in their expectations of attaining a college degree, as compared to non-participants” (Lipscomb, 2007, p. 470).

2. Character Building

“Students who participate in extracurricular activities report higher levels of self-concept and self-worth (Claudette Christison – Blomfield & Barber, 2009).” Christison goes on to explain that “they also have opportunities to develop personal interests and discover their strengths and weaknesses (Claudette Christison – Fredricks & Eccles, 2008), which is especially important during the adolescent stage of self-exploration.”

3. Social Development

Adolescents that participate in after-school sports and/or activities, are likely to experience a greater sense of belonging. “Group activities provide opportunities for students to build connections with others who have similar interests and goals, which will increase their motivation to commit long term to an activity that also increases enjoyment.” (Claudette Christison The Benefits of Participating in Extracurricular Activities https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/EJ1230758.pdf).

4. Community Involvement

By participating in extracurricular sports and activities, students are exposed to communities outside the normal school networks, which can be diverse. Claudette Christison explains, … “participating in extracurricular activities creates a network between individuals and their community, including the elderly and the working class (Gatto, 2005). Students can learn the importance of giving back to the community and helping those in need. Students are also more likely to volunteer in their community after high school if they participate in extracurricular activities during adolescence (Barber, Mueller, & Ogata, 2013). These activities generate a sense of belonging to the community as a whole (Barber et al., 2013), which inspires them to be contributing members of society.”

Why Youth Development and Our Program Matters

Our kids are facing challenges beyond life’s expected growing pains. They experience pressures within their communities, online, and the world. It is important for all kids and teens to engage in safe opportunities and programs that foster a culture of acceptance and provide mentorship.

Our program addresses all four benefits.

100% of our teens that have been with us for more than 3 years graduate high school and our Fall Ace class demystifies the college exploration and application process.
Character building is at the core of who we are and what our mission is all about. Of our 6 Life Skills, we have 4 lessons centered around how to build a positive self-identity, 4 lessons designed to help a participant overcome challenges, and 4 lessons focused on how to make informed decisions and work well with others.
When our long-standing participants give speeches or reflect on their time with us, many point to how they have developed socially, and feel First Tee – Silicon Valley is a safe and supportive community. Shaking hands, introducing oneself, and asking questions are behaviors and actions that we encourage and try to develop for all participants in our program.
Last year we had over 120 junior volunteer coaches give back and help mentor our youth. Of the 127 junior volunteers more than 75% were or are active participants in our program. Many of them said they remembered their junior coach when they were young and wanted to give back as soon as they were eligible.

2025 School Year is coming fast!

Many extracurricular sports and activities require try-outs, signups and/or fees weeks in advance. Make sure you’re keeping up with groups and organizations’ communications. Learn more about First Tee – Silicon Valley’s youth programs.

The First Tee – Silicon Valley FALL 2025 Classes begin September 9^th

Registration for our Fall 2025 Classes opens here on Wednesday, August 13th at 11am. Register for an 8-week set of classes at one of our three locations:

Rancho del Pueblo (San Jose)
Baylands Golf Links (Palo Alto)
Gavilan College Golf Course (Gilroy)

Classes are open to all youth from 2nd to 12^th grade. Equipment Provided. Registration Fee is $250 for our Rancho del Pueblo Golf Course and Gavilan College Golf Course classes and $300 for our Baylands Golf Links classes. Financial aid is available on a sliding scale and can reduce the fee to $20-$180.

If you’re interested in registering your child or want to ask a question, please fill out the inquiry form below.